I was in Wally world the other day and, as my habit is, I
was people watching. After my time in Iraq I have found that being around large
numbers of people tend to make me nervous, so my eyes are always moving and my
head is always in motion as I try to keep an eye on everything that is going on
around me. On this particular day though, for some reason, I found myself
really looking at the people that were there. It was busy and there was every
type of person that you could imagine there. Young couples carrying babies,
older folks shuffling along, rather rotund farmers, biker types and old
hippies. It’s not that this is an unusual experience to see such a variety of people;
it was that for once I found myself making judgment calls based on appearances.
Usually I see people as just being people, but for some reason, I was actually
basing my opinion of total strangers on nothing more than their appearance.
This is so wrong and it’s not like I am some sort of stud monkey. I’m toothless,
tattooed and bald, not to mention
somewhat rotund, as some of those that I was judging.
I wonder what would happen if we started treating others,
not based on appearance, but as if they were the embodiment of the Messiah.
Instead of looking at the dirt and grime, clothing ,tattoos, all things
external, we actually started treating people
the way the actually deserve , rather than what we judge that they
deserve, I wonder how different things might be.
Maybe that thought is a bit too utopian for the reality of
the world we live in today, yet it seems to me that the goal, of both Jews and
Christians, is to help usher in the Messianic age, to bring about a time of
universal worship of G-D and an end to all suffering. Jesus told his followers
that they were to Love G-D with all their heart, mind soul and strength, and to
love their neighbors as themselves. Jewish teaching says that it is not enough
to just wait for the Messianic age or the Messiah, but that we must act to make
this world a better place, to bring about the age of the Messiah and of universal
peace.
How do we do that? Treat everyone as if they were the
Messiah. If you believed that the person
sitting next to you on the bus, passed out from too much booze, or the tattooed
bald headed guy smelling of grease and dirt was the potential Messiah or that
the Messiah lived in them, how would you treat them? With disdain and hatred? No you would treat them with love and
compassion and never even consider the outward appearance. So if you treat all
people that way , no matter who they are, with love and compassion, you are,
by default, making the world, even just your part of it, better and you are
helping to usher in the Messianic age.
1 comment:
I have to say that sometimes I have judged people by appearances only.
One person in particular I thought to be stuffy, "stuck up", and someone who was way above me in class and stature. I let some of these thoughts continue for years. Last March I took the time to get to know him. Why? I'm not sure. Now he is my secondary / boyfriend. I am so glad I let myself get by the impressions I had originally to find out that he is a Sci-fi geek, fun, funny, shy, quiet until you know him, and someone who is comfortable with himself yet knows how to have fun. I am so glad I didn't go with my first impression. I agree though, I wish we could all be this way.
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